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female
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30-35,
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writes:I am having an issue with this guy I really like. I have a feeling that he is Just leading me on and isn't genuinely interested or cares about me. He will ask me to hang out with him and wants to flirt. He has even asked me to kiss him and sit in his lap and told me he likes me even after I asked him straight out.However he doesn't ask me out. I also heard from a mutual friend that he was talking about how ppl from different backgrounds like him.....I'm hispanic and he is white. He sometimes initiate contact with him but he always responds and flirts back. However I've heard from friends that he called Me a stalker. He even bragged to ppl about a 'love' note I sent to him.I'm just hurt, a bit embarrassed and confused by his behavior. Does he sound like he is genuinely intersted and respects me or is just leading me on?
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (20 June 2011):
 do you trust the person who told you the guy called you a stalker?? if so it sounds as though this guy is enjoying the attention you give to him but he is not really interested in giving you anything REAL back. maybe you should just remain on a friendly basis (although he is not a true friend if he is being all nicey nice but then calling you 'stalker' to other people!) move on, find a guy who is into you instead of wasting your time on reciprocated love
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2011): Hmm that's really tough. I had a situation kind of similar to that. I recommend playing hard to get for a while, or somehow making it publically clear that HE is pursueing YOU. Not in a way that would embarrass him, but maybe somehow subtly. Also, maybe you should confront him and say something like "When did I write you a love letter?...", kind of jokingly, but making it clear that he can't mess with you, and possibly starting a conversation where he could reveal his motives. You could also ask him upfront, but then be prepared that you're friendship with him might become shakier. Good luck!
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