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51-59,
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writes:Hey guys and galshere's a question for you. My BF ( whom recently moved in with me ) I will we have been together for 6 months but known each other years. just randomly said in a conversation with me" that's why I married you" were not even married lol. do you think he has it mind? or am I over thinking?thanks in advance for any advice here :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2013): "Wifey". Heh, Cara Delevigne's neologism now gaining popular currency.
He does seem like a decent guy who's trying to be gentle and have a sense of humour.
I think (in my misjudged opinion, I have little to no relationship experience) he's trying to be kind.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (7 September 2013):
 Didn't you discuss marriage before you moved in together? If you didn't, then you can work off the assumption he's joking. You can test this by joking back.
Do you want to marry him? Or was this never an issue before?
You're in your late 30s. Presumably you know what you want out of life? Ask for it. Go girl!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2013): I looked at your age-group above your post. Somewhere between 36-40? He's just saying you're loveable, homespun, and you make him feel comfortable. You're probably the care-giver type. Do you cook, clean, and treat him like a king?
Hold back a little. Don't give more than you take. I was in the same situation, and was told something very similar. I'm a gay man. I tend to take care of people. It's my nature. You'll offer him everything he needs; because of your generous and caring nature.
Why buy the cow, when you get the milk for free?
Don't make him the center of your universe. Allow him to present an engagement ring or wedding band; before you define what you have together as marriage, or any facsimile.
He's being nice. He is also being appreciative; but assume nothing until someone proposes to you. Otherwise; you may build false hopes, and end up chasing a carrot on a stick. Don't expand on the meaning, just take it as a compliment. He sounds like a real sweet guy! A lucky one too!
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