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writes:okay so my ex of 16 months that i have a daughter with, him and i broke up 4 months ago he's married to a girl that he had been dating a month they've been married a month.he claims he is over me and has no feelings and that he is really in love with his wife.he still wants to buy me things. if i text him and tell him i need something he will give me money to get it for example i was just playing around yesterday and asked him if he could buy me shoes for school and he asked me how much money i needed to get them. he called me friday to see what size diapers the baby wore then he asked me if i needed anything that he wouldnt mind getting stuff for me. his wife doesn't like me she never has. i've never talked to her or met her or ever given her a reason to not like me. last tuesday he wrecked her jeep and she told him she didnt want him driving anywhere he hasn't seen his daughter in over a week , yesterday he had to take his wife to work and pick her up and he ended up getting pulled over. he don't have a licenses and is here in the u.s illegaly. she wont let him see his daughter unless she brings him to see her. and he told me that he would have her bring him to my house drop him off and pick him back up. i don't trust his wife being around out daughter thats why he either comes to my house or i meet him somewhere. is he starting to regret marrying her and breaking up with me, and not over me or is he just trying to be nice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2012): Your very last sentence suggests it was he who broke up with you. If this is correct then I'd say he's feeling guilty and is just trying to be nice and do the right thing by you. Lots wouldn't. If you were the instigator of the break up then he truly isn't over you.
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reader, agonyauntsanonymous +, writes (7 August 2012):
First off he has no license, wrecked her car and got pulled over... I can understand her dropping him off and picking him up. He is trying to buy diapers and things you may need to support you and his child, probably to avoid the legal system as far as child support. I do not think this is an appropriate question. Hes married!!! Even if he didnt want to be married to her, are you expecting him to come back to you? Because he said he had no feelings for you so that doesnt sound realistic. Get over him, move on focus on your life and making it the best you can for your child. Accept that hes married and respect it. Whether they last or not there are boundries. And asking whether or not he regrets his marriage is crossing the line especially when you have feelings for him.
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