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writes:Okay.. So I have a question bout a guy I like. I am really close to him and his family. I met him thru his aunt. Well whenever I hang around him and his family I always get mixed signals. Sometimes he sits on the other side of the room and seems to care less I'm there.. Other times like the last time he was flirting and poking me. I'm pretty sure he might know I like him because his whole family does. And they slways tease me and being up his name to me. Here is the problem.. He has a girl that lives in a diff. State who he has been on off for a few years.. She cheats.. Is not good looking at all. His whole family hates and he never sees or really talks to. I asked his sis why he is still with her and she said it is cuz he is comfortable. I asked her if he wasn't with this girl if she thinks I would have a shot. So this is the really stupid part.. I looked at his myspace and it says he is smitten and it was just recently put there and his gf isn't even a friend on his myspace or knos he has it.. I dunno who or if means it seriously. He gives me signals that he might be interested like eye contact and going to places he knows I am going to be. His mom says he is really shy.. So does he like me? Or is he smitten with someone else? Guys are so confusing!I guess I just don't understand why if he doesn't like me why his family keeps teasing me and encouraging me. They have to kno something right?
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reader, DearSteve  +, writes (23 April 2008):
 I may well be that this guy is looking to move on with his life, but feels a bit torn because he is, essentially, still in a relationship. This might explain why he’s hot one moment and cold the other. I think it’s safe to say that you’re not the problem here. He’s obviously going through some inner turmoil and might need a friend, so be there for him. Make the first move, ask him if he fancies going out somewhere – make his see what he’s missing. Of course, if he is truly in love with this other girl, then don’t pounce on him; he might get offended. Make your presence known and if he is interested, he’ll come to you. As for his family, they may well know that his other relationship won’t last and might be looking to hook him up. If they’re teasing you it means you’ve got their blessing which will make things so easier for you. Good luck!
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