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writes: With this guy I cheated on my boyfriend for, we got together, For a year three of those months were actual non cheating. Intro to the fam, said they loved me. then he says he doesn't trust me because I've lied about still speaking to my ex. I just didn't want him to be mad. Then I told him, I just felt bad for the ex cause I cheated. Anyway me and the new guy were good, then he said he didn't want to speak to me. Two days later said he needed to talk. Comes over tells me he's in love with me. (He was a little buzzed, not drunk)spent the night. Next day we hung out, no problem. Then he stopped calling. See him at the bar, he was a total ass. I asked if this was my hint to break, he said NO!Come to find out he had been texting this girl for 2 weeks, and asked her out. Told her he told his mom and granma about her. I confronted him, and he said that he was drunk when he said he loved me, this was not the first time he said he loved me though. Anyway said he was glad this happened cause he didn't trust me. The last thing he said was "I guarantee you get back with your ex". He was always jealous of him, and questioning me about him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2005): dosent feel too good when someone you are in love with cheats does it? if you have a cheating history, how could he ever trust you?
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reader, shania  +, writes (10 November 2005):
 you sound quite young.Your new guy is jealous and probably feels threatened that your speaking to your ex and wondering if it really is over between you two.If you want this guy then stop all contact with your ex then have a proper talk with your new fella and say you want to start again.If,though,he is still seeing this other girl then drop him because then he is definately mucking you about.
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (10 November 2005):
 Run, get away from that situation as fast as you can. There is no reason for you to be treated that way. It is up to you if you carry on a relationship with your ex but it sounds as though the new guy is willing to take what he can get from you whenever he can get it. Don't just give him what he wants because chances are when you want something from him like a relationship he will always use the ex card and turn against you.
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