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*acha ransick
writes:I have bn with my bf for 3 months now and he has a two year old daughter. I jst recently discovered his ex was pregnant and he admited. He stil chose to be with me bcoz of the love we share but my concern is I have never been to his house. He has bn to mine many times. He told me he will take me on his birthday but did not. Does he really love me? And am I been a fool for tolerating him please advise me because I really love him.
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reader, anonem  +, writes (24 December 2015):
 Why do you want so much baggage? Just because of the warm feeling in your chest doesnt meant you genuinely love him. Please move on. Sounds to me like your feelings are on the spur of the moment. Please move on.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (24 December 2015):
 Yes.... you're being a fool. He is using you, and you choose not to see it....
Goodluck..
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2015): Is he still actually living with his "ex"? If he only recently found out she was pregnant he's cleary had sex with her very recently...
I personally would not be involved in this sort of drama. The guy has a child already with his ex and is expecting another. He might want to go back to her and be wth his family or she might not take well to you.
3 months isn't long enough to truly know someone or know if you love them. But you'd certainly expect to have been to their house! Be careful and be wary, if he has nothing to hide he would've taken you there x
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 December 2015):
 There must be some reason that he is not taking you to his house, are you sure that he is not still with his ex? Have you considered that you might be the other woman and that he is having an affair with you?
You need to confront him and ask him what he is hiding, if he still will not show you his home then I would suggest that you are better away from him as he sounds shady to me.
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