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writes:Hi everyone,I need help some badly I'm going Insane!Right, I met this guy *Liam* on a chatroom about a yr ago, we've never met in person but we always video call (webcam and mic) and txt eachother. At first it started with him just say 'I love you' when we said bye, (and i know he fancies me, he said) but now he keeps saying it in mid convo or randomly txts me saying i love you etc and also he keeps saying that i'm beautiful and complimenting me.Does he love me as a friend or more?please help i'm going mad, i'm so confused and i'm scared to ask him.any advice would b apprecitated.xconfused-15yr old
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2007): i have a friend who i like alot. he has a girlfriend, but he told me he loves me too. i have know idea what this means. i assume he means as a friend because he has a girlfriend. but he told her she was the first girl he had ever said it to. if it was that important to him why did he say it to me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe is who he says he is, i know this for a fact. I have seen him on cam and he has never changed his story about something. he's never lied to me. he is like one of my best friends. i just wna go and see him so much but i cnt cz its a 4hr drive and i'm only 15.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (16 October 2007):
It could work out but the odds are against it. You need to go very slow. He may not be what he seems and you need to check out the things he tells you. Keep a record of all his personal identification so it can be checked out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey, thanks for the advice.
I decided to ask him directly and it turns out he does love me as if I was his girlfriend, which is great news because I have huge feelings for him too. However, the distance is still a problem, he lives in blackpool and I live in London. We r both 15 so we cant travel, will this EVER work out?
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (15 October 2007):
He thinks he could fall in love with you if you would give him a chance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2007): Well,I've been helping many people with these types of problem. Listen,you need to ask him directly does he love you as a lover or a friend.If he does then it is all up to you whether you want to make him your lover or friend or former friend.You have to ask him himself and not other people.Because if you ask someone else to ask him,he might give the person a lie.So,ask him directly.Since you two don't meet,make sure it is really him before you ask him because it might be someone else using his cell phone or computer or other communicating technologies.Good luck. :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2007): Perhaps it is love, but do be careful on websites and stuff because they can be dangerous.
You don't have to meet someone to fall in love with them. I think he's saying 'I love you' and complimenting you because he does actually have strong feelings for you because all the conversations etc your bound to be close! I don't tell my friends I love them constantly, well at all to be honest. I do tell my boyfriend ALOT because it makes me feel so happy knowing he feels the same.
Take Care, and please be careful. :]
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