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36-40,
anonymous
writes:help me ive got myself in to a tricky situation im having an affair with my bosses boss! its been going on for 4 months now and i am really falling for him. he has told me he is leaving his girlfriend so we can be together as we are both sick of sneaking around im just scared of the outcome when it all comes out in the open am i doing the right thing or should i just tell him to forget it and move on? he is 10 years older than me i know i can do better but we just click and get on so well i dont know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2007): Leave your job before you are in a corner about all this and end up having to. This will also help you get a perspective on the relationship with this guy and see if he is serious about you too. 10 years is not a big deal but people are very judgmental and it could affect his job so much that he puts that first. You just never know but either way, if I was you, I would stay one jump ahead and learn from it. I'm very bothered you think you could do better.....?
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (15 October 2007):
Does his family own the company? If not, you are playing with a fire that could get you both. One of you (you) may have to quit if word gets arround. Are you ready for that.
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (15 October 2007):
 hi
i wonder why you went into a relationship knowing that your bosses boss had a girl friend, until he leaves his girlfriend i would be very careful, of what you do with this guy, he may be leading you down the garden path, if you are having a relationship with him why not cool it for a while just to see if he is using you or he really does leave his girlfriend for you, if he does leave his girl and you are still happy with him , then everything will be OK, if he does not then i am afraid he is using you, there is also the possibility that you may go out with and he may then leave you, and go with some-one else, i am afraid you have some hard choices to make,
to tell you the truth i believe you should walk away and find some-one who has not got a current girlfriend and find yourself true happiness. hope this help good luck
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