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female
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26-29,
*loveyhoo
writes:me and my ex were still in love, but never had a releationship going after the other two didnt turn out. then him and this girl were married on facebook, and i asked him who she was and he said just a mate. and i kept asking, then finally he admitted to me that he liked her. but then all of a sudden, i found out by one of his best mates that him and this girl were linking!then when my mate asked him the next day at school, he acted like such an idiot, and said it wasn't my fault that i didnt know ! whilst he was linkin her, he was flirting with me through text! but i sometimes still talk to him through text, and it kills me. i was readin his facebook, and he was saying things to the girl, like if you wasn't here,i wouldnt have anyone, and i love your mroe than life and everything! and it kills me to just see that he used to say that to me, and now he doesn't. its like he was lying before. i've tried moving on, and i can't do it. I always see him, but don;t speak to him, as it is soo awkward! there's just a couple of questions i need to find out, did he use her to get over me ? was his love for me real ? why did he give up on me ? does he still have the most littlest feeling for me ? does he love her enough to call it love ? does he love her more than he loved me ?But i don't know how to find these out, and it hurts so much! Whenever i ask him a deep detailed questions these days, he never answers back, thats why i keep it simple like how are you ? any help will help , thankyou x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 December 2009):
I'm sure he did love you, but it wasn't enough to make it some sort of commitment permanently. To be honest, you both sound very young at the moment, and love can be a huge word. I don't think it's that he didn't love you, I just think he's still a young man and isn't mature enough to know how to use those words, or what a relationship really is. When you get a bit older, you'll meet a guy who will love you more than anything, and you'll understand what I mean about the maturity. In the meantime, focus on yourself, make sure you're having fun with other people and when you're ready, you'll meet a great guy. There is no rush.
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