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writes:My boyfriend said he has never come from a blow job before. I want to give him oral during times when I'm on my period, but usually after a while he would stop me and say it's okay. He never asks me to finish him with my hands and he never finishes himself off either. My question is that I'm wondering if he actually likes getting oral even if he can't orgasm from it, or if this may cause blue balls or may add to his already existing sexual tension/frustration. Because it seems rather pointless giving him a blow job when he can't come from it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2009): I havent had an orgasm during oral sex. Its not that I dont want too because i do but its because it just doesnt happen. i dont know if the problem is the way they do it or the problem is with me (or in this case your bf) maybe he is embarssed about it because i know i am sometimes. talk to him about it. make sure he knows that hes not the only guy with that problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009): Totally agree with SatinDesire and Mrs. Mom. You see, I'm a guy and I love watching a girl at the end of my... Wait, how old are you? (goes to checks) ...and the end of my schlong. I guess it doesn't matter these days. Kids, pfft. ^_~
I have never had an orgasm from a blow job before, not that I remember at the moment anyway. However, I just love watching her do her thing there. It's quite a yummy sight.
Alas, the best way to know is: COMMUNICATE! Can't stress this enough. SEX IS COMMUNICATION! So, communicate with your boyfriend!
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reader, MaggieMay123  +, writes (17 February 2009):
If he stops you it may be because he doesn't want to make a mess..
You need to talk to him... Ask him why.. tell him you want to understand why he doesn't want to come (Thats what it sounds like..While giving him a blow job stop for a few seconds and ask him if it feels good...
You will find the answer is yes! (It is with my boyfriend who moans and tells me its good.. he knows i like to know that what I'm doing is making him feel good)
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reader, Mrs. Mom  +, writes (17 February 2009):
 It's possible he enjoys it even if he can't have orgasm from it. But the best way to know is to ask him! Plus you'll get the side benefit of starting out being frank about sex early instead of getting to age 50 and still being shy about it, like me :D
Good luck!
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (17 February 2009):
I ask my boyfriend and he said it sound like you aren't good at it. While doing it use your hand to touch where your mouth cant and ask him what he like to to show you. Let him move your head or hand or do different sucking motions and ask him what he likes.
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reader, A dodgy bloke +, writes (17 February 2009):
 I think he would feel awkward coming on you or stuff like that. He probably enjoys it but it would be embarrassing coming on you, unless your into that kind of stuff. Just talk to him about it.
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