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writes: Recently my boyfriend has become obsessed with his bicycle. He spends so much time modifying and fixing the thing we don't even have a sex life, or even a social life anymore! I am 24 and he is 27 and we live together. I even caught him masturbating over pictures of bicycles on the Internet - when he could have had sex with me instead! I feel so upset with him I do not know what to do.What should I do about him? Bexy xxx Back to top
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2005): What do I do about the problem and how does it affect our young son??
My boyfriend has become so obsessed with the bicycle he's even bought himself two more!
What do I do?
Bexy
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2005): DITCH THE BASTARD someone like that not worth it i mean i know most blokes love they toys but this guy going a little over the top here.
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (24 November 2005):
The professional relationship consultant below should know then that people can get somewhat addicted to other things and as a result neglect their partner. Perhaps a little amusing what he is addicted to but not funny overall. It can be a serious problem.
Talk to him and explain to him how you feel. Express that you feel you deserve more from him and that you no longer wish to feel second best and neglected.
If he will not compromise with you, then it may be best to consider leaving unless he is prepared to work on your relationship.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2005): I'm a professional relationship consultant, and this is hilarious.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2005): We have a young son, and he keeps asking "Why is Daddy on the bike all the time?"What should I do?Bexy xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2005): Maybe the bicycle had a nice rack
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2005): Talk to him. Tell him how you miss the sex, and his involvement with you. Ask him why he is more interested in his bike than in you? If he has rethought his relationship with you, and no longer has the same passion he once had, then leave. Its been over since before he bought the bike. I know this hurts, but you are not alone. Find someone else who will love you.
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