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writes:I have known this guy for about four years. We have the same group of friends and often hang out all together. About three months ago, he broke up with a good friend of mine that we both hang out with. It kind of seemed like he started talking to me more after that. Around the time of prom, we had an assembly in school about not doing drugs and stuff like that. At the assembly, he sat in the row in front of me. I am a goody-two-shoes, so he said that I should pay attention to the video as a joke because he knows I would never really do drugs. We also both play in our school band. He complimented me after I did a solo, and he said I was a really good player. I realized that I liked him just a few weeks ago, and I was worried about not hurting my friend, even though she claimed she was over him. I saw him at a party recently, and I found out that he had started dating a different girl in our group of friends; I never cared for her that much. I thought he might have liked me, and now I'm really confused and not sure. Does he like me or his girlfriend? Thanks, I appreciate everyone's help :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): High school relationships get to be very tricky when groups of friends are involved. He may or may not like you, but don't read into everything. Of course he started talking to you more after they broke up, he had a lot more time to do so and a good friend would tell you your solo sounded great (especially if it did). Neither of these are defining factors of if he likes you or not.He might like you but think you don't like him! He might be exploring new relationships. I had a group of mainly guy friends and I flirted with most of them at some point for some amount of time. Its how you test relationships and compatibility. He may just be taking anything that comes his way (which would make it a very bad thing to throw yourself at him). Unless he spends a lot of time with this new girl then I wouldn't consider it more than exploring what works.As for your friend that broke up with him, she really may be over him. If there was not much of a connection then she may really not care. Talk to her about it.
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