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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I am really bad at picking up signs if a guy likes me. This guy we meet up monthly for a gaming community event with friends, and this is how we met. We mostly talk online because there is a 2-3 hour drive between us. I know it would be better taken off the internet, hoping it will get to that stage soon, but taking it slow.I like him and have a small crush on him. He started commenting on a lot of things on the group chat we are in with our mutual friends, he would comment on almost everything and anything I said. He started to tease me a lot calling me a grandma, telling me I cannot do certain things correctly in games (all in good fun!), he would try and jump scare me to get a reaction out of me from the message notification sounds or sneezes into the microphone and he laughs to himself. He does say "goodnight grandma" and "goodbye grandma". Basically he does ALOT of teasing! The friends in the group chat love watching it and started coupling us together but he didn't react to it.He wanted me to play one of his favourite games, and he even taught me how to play it and he plays it with me weekly. He kept asking me to play it for 3 days straight and I gave in. I think he done this to find some common ground but also to talk to me on phone when we play. He wants to watch me play it a lot.I did add him and he accepted, I thought that might of been a hint to make a move but he didn't send a message or anything. Recently he has been hanging out with me online in a group call with me and a few other friends, I thought he was doing it to spend more time with me but I have rose colour glasses right now, haha! He use to never do that before, now he makes an effort to join in on most things I am doing with other mutual friends.He has asked me general questions, like my favourite colour, what i study, where I study, what town I am from, what kind of TV shows I like. We talk everyday but in the group chat, not private messages. I was going to make a move but he keeps teasing me saying I am his "no.1 fan" so I am embarrassed to do anything.I do not know if he really likes me, hard to say without body language but this is all I have to work with!Any ideas? Thanks for everyone's opinion in advance! I genuinely enjoy all the advice everyone gives (and to all my previous questions!)
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (8 July 2023):
 It's hard to say if he likes you or not but what I can say, is this. Do stay safe on the internet and don't give out personal information because if it falls into the wrong hands, then you could be in a LOT of trouble.
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