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writes: He emailed me that he wanted to ask me one of those awkward ones and yet funny at the same time type of questions. He's been wondering for quite sometime so he just wanted to throw it out there.Already knew what he was going to say, but put "Sure, shoot".Then he asks if I have a crush on him,How long?Since six months after he moved in the neighborhood.I say that it has been years since I have had a crush. The last crush I had was in 5th grade (I'm 17 O.O). I say I can't answer him fairly and I just don't want to lose what we have...oddly enough :PThen he proceeds to tell me " I love having you as a friend and was just curious cause that is what it seemed like to me. So to clarify that you don't have a thing for me.I then told him it is too soon to tell. (cause the older I get, the harder it is for me to like someone that way. Its just the way it is sadly.) Then I said maybe if he was a friend a long time ago and still on a good note. Maybe.He then says Friends! :D I always enjoy talking to you and I appreciate you asking me how I was doing while I was away. Thanks! I'm relieved that you don't have a crush on me. It just shows that your not one of those girls that sees someone good looking and gets infatuated without even knowing the person. THANK GOODNESS! and then says alrighty now that that’s all cleared up he will talk to me when he talks to me. ttfnWhy would he even ask in the first place? The girl that has known him for 10+ years said that he thought I liked him because of the pictures I took in his direction. I LOVE my camera! I do that to everyone/everything. That's what he said because that's what it seemed like to him. The girl +10 years said because he needs his ego higher or he's hoping you like him too or he plans to make fun. However him and her haven't been talking in like a year.I talked to him recently and he says that he treats all girls the same, which he said is quite bad because he admitted to have a flirtatious personality when it comes to girls which he's trying to work on cause he says it's jacked up. The girls say HE DID NOT ACT LIKE THIS BEFORE HE GOT CHEATED ON. The girl really stomped on his feelings like he had none and didn't care about him what's so ever.LATER to clarify if we're friends still TWICE, he doesn't come back with anything :( . Yet he still makes eye contact and smiles at me. So?... what?
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reader, YoungLoveAdvice  +, writes (22 April 2013):
 he likes you !!
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reader, Got Issues  +, writes (20 April 2013):
 It sort of reminds me of the classic, when A asks B out, B says no, A says I was only joking anyway. He was testing the water and he got rejected. Unfortunately we all have to deal with rejection from time to time. Leave him alone for a while to lick his wounds.
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