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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hey. I’ve been msning a guy at my college for well over a year. I know him in person, it’s just that we’re both too shy to talk! And I fancy him.Last year, after certain conversations he’d add xx when he left. I never did because I was confused with my feelings. Since then, he’s never added xx. By now, we talk every day. He always starts the conversation almost straight away and we talk about anything and everything. He remembers a lot of little details about me, takes notice of stuff I do and he’s always really nice to me. When we do talk in person he teases me and does things to attract my attention. I tend to catch his eye a lot too. He always makes me smile and I’ve ended up really liking him.So a few weeks ago he asked for my number and he gave me his. I forgot about it until he text me a joke randomly the other day. I text him back and added xx. We had an ordinary msn convo that night but the night after he added xx so I did too. It’s got me thinking because it was just a normal text. I’m thinking he must have paid attention to the xx and thought about whether to add it on msn, since he waited a day before doing it. But I’m really scared that I’ve got it wrong. Do you think his xx meant anything? And is it possible that he likes me too?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010): no I don't think the xx meant anything but maybe you should ask him out if he hasn't done so. you'll know then.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 April 2010):
It might do. But like you, he might not have a clue how you feel because neither of you are actually talking about it. One of yoou needs to be brave here. And since you're the one asking for advice, I'll suggest you do it! Talk to him, tell him how you feel and see what he says. You have nothing to lose. But if you don't talk to him, you may well lose him. So be brave.
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