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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Right I like this boy and he seems to like me and he invites me out alot and we go and we'll kiss often but really just talking, but now I'm not too sure if he likes me or if he is just trying to use me for sexual activites or something like that, I've had bad experiences in the past like that so would you think he is just after one thing or is he actualy into me? Reply to this Question
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reader, love-him +, writes (6 June 2007):
 Hey chick you dont say why you are getting these worries of him wanting you for sexual activities.. mail me this info if you want.. if he tries to pressurise you into anything say no unless you are perfectly sure about it.. if you dont feel safe with him (the worries he may just be after you for one thing -sex-) then end it, its not worth the hassel.. mail me if u wana talk chick x x x
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reader, nologo  +, writes (6 June 2007):
 Hard to grasp topics require unbiased answers.
Forgiving them we need step out of background.
"I've had bad experiences in the past like that so would you think he is just after one thing or is he actualy into me".
The point here is this: if you keep thinking "he is just trying to use me", this will lessen your choices in life.
Bad experiences should be discarded as you need to move on.
As to "I'm not too sure if he likes me": only time can tell.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2007): I personally dont think you should be doing anything with a boy until youve gotten to know him better, and are in a commited relationship with him. Alittle kissing is fine, but that always leads to more. If he tries doing more, and he still hasnt asked you out, then i would think he just wants one thing.
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reader, suz001  +, writes (6 June 2007):
You don't give a lot of info. Does he take you out, do you do things together, do you talk a lot, is there a connection between the two of you (not just physical)? You also do not say how old you are or whether this boy has a history of using girls. If he has, then maybe it is better to check things out first, before getting too involved!
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