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writes: Hello, i wonder if you can help me. I have a guy friend that i think fancies me. He is completely gorgeous in every way, i admit, i do fancy the pants off of him but i cant seem to read him and i dont want to make myself look like and idiot. We all hang out in the same group of mates and on Friday night we all went out clubbing. I said that i was going to toilet and he said that he would come with me so i said o.k, he waited for em outside and when i came out, he sort of stodd really cloe to me and looked me right int the eyes and i thought he was going to kiss me but then then he said what? and i said, nothing, he turned it around because i wasnt the one who got really close to him. He is always doing things that make me think that he likes me more than a friend, like, for instance we were joking around (flirting the other day) and he said to Dave (our other friend) that he had kissed me and Dave asked me and i said yeah we did and we sort of played along with it, in the end obviously we told him that we were only joking and Jason said to me, he wished that i wasnt joking and he gets really close to me all the time and is always saying little things. We were dancing together the other night too and we were getting really close. I know it sounds stupid but i cant work him out, i cant work out if its just for a bit of fun or wether he really likes me but doesnt want to make himself look like an idiot? i dont know what to do about it, i really wish that i had kissed him the other night but i dont want to look like an idiot. i dont know what to do, i dont want to be the one to make the first move, how can i encourage him to make the first move? sounds stupid, i know, but i dont want to be turned down. Any ideas? Thanks. Also, i was thinking of doing something for him for Valenties day tomorrow but something secret, so he wont know its from me, i spose what i want to do is to keep hinting to him that i like him but for him the actually make the move?! do i saound crazy? i just dont want to be let down and to look like a fool. Plaease help. Thank you.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (13 February 2006):
 It does sound like something is going on in his head he just has not worked it through yet, he obviously thinks he likes you but maybe he is just scared of loosing the friendship, or upsetting the balance within your group.
Good idea about a valantine, just write one and put it through his door or slip it into his jacket, something like that, cards are supposed to be sectret, so do this and set him guessing, although you may have to be brave and make the first move, dont be worried about getting it wrong, just make sure when you are brave enough to make this move that it is in a pub or club so if it all goes wrong you can say you had too much drink and you are sorry.
Personally I think he likes you so you have nothing to worry about.
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