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writes: Theres this boy, Chris, and on New Years eve he told me he thought i was well fit. Then the following week at school, every1 found out that i fancyed him, and he was being nice. That evening tho, my mate,, Grace, saw him on the street and he said "Whats going on with ur mate then?" and grace yelled "LOOK CHRIS SHE DOESNT FANCY YOU!" then he said, "well thank f**k for that, shes a mong." i was really upset, but my friends say he just said it, because its kinda like ive rejected him, and he doesnt want to seem as if he was interested in the first place. Is this true?! PLEASE help me, I think im falling in love with him!!!!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2006): If he says he likes you then why would he lie? I think your friends might be right as this boy chris was the one who asked for you 1st,which meant he was thinking about you to begin with. The fact that your mate told him that you didn't fancy him would have made him emmbaraased and would have wanted to retaliate. Talk to this boy on your own and set the record straight,especially if you think you are falling for him its best to get things out in the open. Life is too short,why waste time beating yourself up over it. Communicate and you'll get to where you want to be
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reader, Kated101 +, writes (22 January 2006):
Right I can totaly remember this situation from school and I may be wrong but I reckon this is the situation. To me, he quite obviously fancies you, probably quite alot.
When your friend told him that you didn't fancy him he went into a typical guy "protect the ego" mode and hence the "mong" comment.
If I was you, I'd maybe get your friend to say she didn't mean what she said and it was just a joke, or get another friend to tell him that you do really like him, but act as if you had no idea the friend was saying anything to him.
Sometimes though, when a guys ego's been bashed that much he might be worried to say he likes you incase hes getting trapped or something. The best thing you could probably do is find out for sure (although I'm pretty certain) if he does/did like you and then talk to him yourself.
One thing Im almost 100% sure of is that the "comment" he made was just a reaction to what your friend said to protect his ego. I hope this helps, let me know what happens!! All the Best xKx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2006): If I was you, I'd talk to his friends. Get in with his crowd and ask them who he fancies! You never know it could be you. And if he doesn't then stuff him! You sound like a lovely girl with a big heart, and I'm sure you're a lovely person and if he can't see that then he's not worth your time and effort. Talk to him as a friend, and see how things go from there.I've found as I've got older, the best way to get a boyfriend is to be his friend. At least then you can suss him out and get to know what kind of person he is. And 9 times out of 10 they ain't what you thought they were! Good luck, all the best xLx
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