A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ok let me tell you my ex bf called me whore even though i didnt sleep with anyone and asked me forgive and told me he lost his control and promise me and i gave him one chance Then he did the same thing and called me different words which made me sad again he did this when he lost his controlThen he wanted me to give him another chance but i was gonna go back to him and guess what i saw? While he was telling me he loves me, at the same time he was asking all girls to hang out with him or night club even though some of them have bfSince 2 months, he texted to me and i didint answer him then Last week i thought i moved on and saw nothing is gonna happen if i meet to talk to him. Then we talked and explained me oh they are my coworkers and accepted his mistakes and wanted me one more chanceI told him, u have to be patient with me..then checked his fb and messages with him just one make sure then we went to watch movie then kissed for a bit then left me to homeNext day, we sent each other only one message.. cause he doesnt know my new mobile number and i didnt want to give him too.. I dont know why i went over there and met him..maybe now i dont have anybody.. we are only keeping in touch via fb.. we are not even friends and idk what he is doing and he is not either..It has been over 1 year relationship.. during those times he hurt me so much.. today he went to party with his parents and i was gonna go but he told me to drive me bck in the morning and also we went to the same xmas party last year and he drove me bck the time i wanted and didnt understand why he didnt want me to drive me bck the time i wanted.. his reason is his parents want him to stay over there till they leave but last year he took me to home and i know last year was the first time that i met his parents.sGuys, should i be with him like this, not calling or texting only contact via fb or cut off all contact? Does he deserve a chance? Or how do i overcome after he all hurt me and wasted my one yeae with him?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 December 2010):
You gave him a first chance, and he failed. He said he'd changed and you gave him a second chance, and he failed. Do not ever give him another chance. He will fail you again.
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