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anonymous
writes:Hi,I was seeing this boy who I live with (in Halls) for a month or so, and one night I got really drunk and kissed my best guy friend in front of him. Naturally he was really upset and we didn't speak for a while, but then we decided to be friends again.After a while I realised how much I still liked him and let him know and he said sorry but there was just nothing there any more, but we remained good friends. We spoke everyday and I always got the impression that he was interested in me, he'd come to my room randomly, he'd seem distant when I was seeing other guys. Then just recently everything looked like it was going really really well, I got the impression something had changed, I went into hospital and he was genuinely so worried and walked all night trying to find the hospital to see me. But following another drunken night out he told my best friend that he didn't fancy me. I tried to put it behind me, then the other night, the last before he left to go home, we made out. He told me how he did like me and how it would always be me and him and everything was going so well, and the following morning he was still so lovely and kissed me and I genuinely thought everything was sorted.So I texted him later on that day, and received no reply, I called him that night and still nothing. Am I just being the biggest idiot ever here? I don't understand as I know lots of people will say he was just using you, but he didn't sleep with me and if he was just using me surely he would have?Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2011): Just try to remember you hurt him first time around!! If he did that to you would you be willing to go back for more, he probably doesn't want to get hurt again. He needs to learn to trust you again. You need to ask his openly if there is any chance of a future, if not move on. He is confused as he cared before and you hurt him and even though he may be falling for you again, he can't get past it as quick as you. He was hurt.
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reader, raiders  +, writes (28 March 2011):
 You need to ask him straight out what are his feelings for you. You also need to tell him how you feel. Once you two talk you'll be able to see where you stand, and if he wants no relationship than maybe you should look else where. Don't start dating or seeing another guy until you two dicussed this because it seems like you both are just confused.
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