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writes:Hi, im nearly 17 and single. The other night i went to a festival with my friend and we met her boyfriend there and one of his friends he had brought along. After about an hour of being with them, his friend told him that he liked me. Later on we were all dancing then he started dancing with me then spun me round and we started snogging. We carried on for about half an hour and he started putting his hands up my dress and touching me. We were all together most of the night and we slept in each others arms, even though i had just met him and he ended up giving me a few lovebites. When i was about to leave he asked for my number and said hope to see you very soon. Since then we have been speaking on messages and i said about us all meeting up again and he said haha maybe. Why did he say that? Reply to this Question
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reader, Hepburn  +, writes (11 July 2012):
It is impossible to know what he is thinking unless you get to know him a little more. Maybe he does want to see you again but is shy, or worried about appearing too keen. Maybe he likes you but is interested in someone else and wants to see how that goes first...there is no way of knowing just yet. In any case, you have expressed an interest in seeing him again, and you can encourage your friend and her boyfriend to arrange another night out, but there is not much more you can do other than wait to see if he gets in touch after his holiday. Try to avoid coming across as too pushy or needy, and just try to get to know him better socially.
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reader, BondGirl72  +, writes (20 June 2012):
 Sounds like a good possibility then that you can get to know him a little better. Hopefully it works out for you!
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reader, Superwoman95 +, writes (19 June 2012):
Superwoman95 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo, i meant it in a diferent way. Be with you as it dating. Not sleeping with him. My friend is arranging for us 4 to meet up one day next week, and see how it goes. He told me all about where he is going and if i ask him a question he always asks me too so its not like a one sided thing.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (19 June 2012):
He would like to be with you if you wanted in what way? I am not sure what the phrase "be with you" means in your culture when you have just met someone for the first time, but here it means "sleep with you" or "be with you" in an intimate sense. If he really liked you he might tell your friend that he would "like to see you" or "go with you on a date", but not "be with you". If he liked you as a person and wanted to see you after holiday, he would not have laughed and said "maybe". He would have said "Yes, that would be nice. I will contact you when I return."
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reader, Superwoman95 +, writes (19 June 2012):
Superwoman95 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice! Everyone has their own opinion. I forgot to ad that during the night he told my friends boyfriend that he would like to be wth me and if i wanted to? And when i said about us all meeting again he said haha maybe, im going on holiday. So maybe that was why he said maybe? I really dont know but i really like him and loved being with him that night. He also seemed a bit shy, and his friend was telling him to dance with me.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (19 June 2012):
Unfortunately, I agree SVC. I think he was out for a good time and didn't want much more. I like how some people will say you need to play it cool to get the guy, then guy's will come on here and say they are trying everything they can to get a girl and the girl isn't paying any attention. I think it depends on INDIVIDUALS. Some people are interested in others because they want long-term relationships. Some are interested in others for a good time. I think you got the second and should forget about him. If someone genuinely liked you and you asked if you could see each other sometime, he would jump at the chance. I don't think asking to see someone is being "too available". It's just asking a normal question. If his response to a normal question is laughing at you...I would forget him.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (19 June 2012):
 I think he was just interested in seeing how far he could get with you sexually....
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reader, Candycane1234 +, writes (19 June 2012):
 I'm not sure, perhaps he wasn't after anything more.
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