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Does being fingered mean you're not a virgin anymore?

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Question - (2 March 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 March 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *xAkxx writes:

Being fingured numerous times, does that mean a virginty has been taken?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2007):

no sex is vaginal penitarion with the penis so there for you are still a virgin after being fingerd

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A female reader, mum2be United Kingdom +, writes (2 March 2007):

Loosing your virginity is when you have sex for the first time

Therefore, being fingered does not mean that you have lost your virginity.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2007):

no not at all, it just means that you have been involved in fore play, by saying im not a virgin anymore means you have had SEX, dont stress you still innocent by not having sex

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A female reader, chachacha United Kingdom +, writes (2 March 2007):

It depends upon how and why you want to define "virginity".

It certainly means that you are not completely innocent in the sexual activities department.

It also means that you have not actually had sexual intercourse, and for most people, whether you have had sexual intercourse is the key test of whether or not you are a virgin.

In some cultures, particularly ones where women are regarded only as possessions of men and virginity is especially prized, they looks at whether a hymen is intact - yours might be broken as a result of your activity - but it could already have been broken by vigorous sporting activity - so it's a pretty stupid test. In my view, looking at virginity in this way is pretty misogynist anyway.

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