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writes:Dearr cupid..ok basicalyy, im 14 years old and i am, ovcourse, a girl (:i thought my life was a averagee life. As any 14 year old girl lead..I used to have a really bad childhood. i got bullyed, and i lived in a really rough neighbourhood, so i new i was more maturer than my age. so i was abit diffrent.I then went on holiday to egypt and i made friends with these dutch people. i got closer to them and the man told me i had something special. that i could see the best and worse in people. Eversince then i look in a diffrent way.. i think more about things. and i look into peoples eyes more. i can also tell if someone else has this by sence. im just wondering if anyone else had this special gift? as i want to no more information about it. thanks.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): Well we took what you said and answered. We cannot be expected to know what you're thinking behind the anonymous internet posting. We assume that you say what you mean.
Anyhow, i'm lost now as to what you're talking about, but take care and enjoy yourself.
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reader, littlemisshelpful +, writes (16 September 2009):
littlemisshelpful is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni wasnt clear on my question and i apologise.
i diddnt meen it by special gift like that..
the guy was not coming on to me. he new i had the same as him by seing it in my eyes. he firstly asked me a question and i told him he was right.
i meen i can see if people aree good or bad. and i cann see and sence if they have the same.
im sorry i bothered your time. but as most 14 year olds im curious.
the people that say i am being stupid, you have your own opinions.. but you dont no me. so why judge me? you might think your opening my eyes. but i can assure you.. your not.
i diddnt meen it as a Special gift. i just diddnt no how else too put it. it shows how people take other people so literaly.
no1 has special gifts.. but i no i have somthing diffrent. whatever people think..
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): I thought I answered this, but it is not showing on line. Maybe I did not save it.
I am confused exactly by what you meant by "gift." Do you mean you can read people well by looking into their eyes and know if they have this gift like you? The eyes are the mirror of the soul.
Or do you mean you have psychic power?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): It sounds like he may have been coming on to you x
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): umm...yes, i have it too. I can look in peoples eyes and see good and bad. And i can also tell things about them by watching them and listening to them. As a matter of fact i can even tell by reading what they write sometimes...
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (16 September 2009):
 I assure you, you are "gifted" or talented in some way, get your education that will point you in the right direction. It's not mystical it's factual.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): You say you're more mature for your age but you don't act it. None of us were making fun of you.. well maybe Q. But he's a really nice guy and likes to have fun and he's hilarious.
We trying to get you to wisen up. YOu will get made fun of walking around thinking you're gifted like that. People will take you for snotty and egotistical. If you're mature as you think, then take our criticism and advice without getting defensive and blaming us. If you hda waited just for people to tell you they had the same gift, you would have gotten zero responses and asumed no one saw your question.
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reader, littlemisshelpful +, writes (15 September 2009):
littlemisshelpful is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoh f off. ALL OF YOU!. i asked for advice and all ur doing is making fun of me and offending me.you dont no half the story you may think im being stupidd or whatever. but im not.i wish i never asked the question.. i only asked if anyone else had this. not peoples oppinion on me.so sorry for wasting ur time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2009): Honey.. if you want to believe in yourself, that's great. But don't outyourself above people. You asked who else had this "special gift" and we answered you. Almost everybody is able to see the good and the bad. If everyone can, it's not so special is it?
WOrk on finding something else that's special about you, not something that everyone shares.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (15 September 2009):
I have this "special" gift, and it gets sharper and more accurate as the years go by, but I just call it experience.
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reader, littlemisshelpful +, writes (15 September 2009):
littlemisshelpful is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni think your sll wrong. thanks for the advise.
but its my choice..
and i beleve in it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2009): Agree- it's not a gift, it's an attitude. Keep the attitude, but don't fool yourself into thinking that you have a specail natural talent (like being able to fly, or something...).
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (15 September 2009):
 Well, I'd like to think that I have a similar "gift", though I would never call it a gift. I'm an optimist, so I naturally see the good in everyone. Some people are pessimists, and they naturally see the bad. Now that's a very black and white view of optimism and pessimism, but there's a little bit in everyone - for some, one side is stronger than others. For me, it is optimism. It verges on obnoxious and it's kind of a curse because it can cause me to be too trusting and sometimes naive.
It's easier to pick out characteristics, like SY pointed out. I think that's something most can do - though, perhaps you are more sympathetic to people, due to your childhood. Maybe you have a kinder ear to people and to the world and you are extra intuitive. Maybe you can work that into a career choice - you'd make a good counselor or teacher.
I think this man got you thinking in a good way, though. It's good to look into peoples eyes (not stare then down, of course) and to think a little more closely and deeply about things. Don't stop that! But, I wouldn't call it a "special gift", like someone who has X-ray vision or gets prophecies or anything. So, as SY says, don't take yourself too seriously or anything... just appreciate your extra observant self!
Good luck and keep being your sweet self!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2009): I don't really agree with that person. I think that most people have the ability to see the best and the worst in people. For instance, she's really a generous, sweet person, but she also has trouble seeing from others' points of veiw.
That is a very simple anaylasis of a person right there and one that many people would be able to make.
I think that the man had very good intention and it's good for you to start paying more attention now, but try not to take it too seriously or put yourself obove others because you have a "gift." That particular gift is better described as a the characterisitic in people that is "observant."
~Sy.
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