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writes: there is a guy in the area i work in at my job..he is pretty popular in the office and just overall a friendly, cool guy.I am pretty quiet at work and not really a social butterfly at all. I was also going through alot of things so i didn't really have my head together these past few years and probably didn't even look my best alot of the timesWhen he walks by at times he says my name kind of meaning like hey what is going on. It seems like he looks out for me or atleast takes notice of me and i think can tell when i am upset. One time he approached me saying I am being extra quiet and can tell something is wrong and offered to go for a drink. Something came up with him and he couldn't go though that night. Another time about a month ago---we wound up making out at his place after a night out with coworkers. He asked the next day if we were "cool" but now i have a tiny crush on him.He hasn't been saying as much to me since then(also two coworkers might have suspected us leaving at the same time) but then but still says hello in the morning and we still lock eyes..I guess my question is--does a look mean anything? For some reason the way he looks at me and the way i look at him..i don't know how to describe it..its like this niceness on his end and i think i look at him with these innocent sweet eyes like i am attracted to him.BUT he is a friendly guy (not in a perv way) but just pretty popular and maybe he has that same look with others when he says hello or looks at them the same exact way or maybe its the fact we kind of work in the same area so he is going to be nicer to me. (He definitely doesn't do that with my married coworker who is the same area lol) The other girls are in different areas of the office so the hello to them is more loud and a different tone at times. His hello to me is more quiet and we look at each other as he passes by.I guess that look at times gets to me and i like the feeling. But a look doesn't really mean much does it?
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (21 July 2010):
 Some men are attracted to women who are a bit mysterious or seem to need to be 'fixed'. You may have come across this way, which heightened his interest. What do you really know about him? You didn't say how long you've worked around him or what you really know about him. Is he married? Engaged? Seeing someone? Because something tells me that he is. She may work nights. She might've been out of town on the one night you guys made out. She may even live in a nearby town and he just wanted to have a little fling while she was away. I wouldn't let it go further until you know more about his personal life. Then if I'm wrong, proceed with caution. It is an office romance and those can backfire on you big time.
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