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Doctors say my husband and I are fertile and we've been trying to conceive for 3 yrs now. Suggestions, pills?

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Question - (8 November 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 November 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, *hrissy32789 writes:

Hi ladies this is a more of a question for you and guys if you can give advice that would be ok too. Well i am 18 years old the first time i have got my period was when i was 10. But i have irregular periods. i have been to doctors after doctors and all they do is put me on birth controal wich gives me my periods but here is my problem once i come off the pills i dont get my period and i am trying to concive. My husband and i have been to doctors and they tell us that we are both able to conceive but we have been trying for 3 years and nothing has happend is there any pills or anything i can do to help me seeing that the doctors dont want to do a damn thing?

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A female reader, pgissyd United Kingdom +, writes (11 November 2007):

pgissyd agony auntHi! When I was 18 I had a miscarrage, Before that Iwasnt interested in having children. But after I lost the baby I suddenly had a need to hae a child. My partner and I tried for years with no success at all!

Then I just gave up, I decided if I wasnt going to get pregnant I wanst going to allow my relationship to suffer any more under the constant pressure of trying.

So I concentrated on our relaionship and work instead. 2 months later I was pregnant!!!! I now have four gorgous children.

So my advice to you is give up, have sex less regularly and totally take your mind off it. Your young yet, relax and enjoy other things, it will come when its time.

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A female reader, chrissy32789 United States +, writes (9 November 2007):

chrissy32789 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

chrissy32789 agony auntThank you to everyone who gave adivice.

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (8 November 2007):

Fairy_Lu agony auntDont try and conceive it will happen when you least it expect it so if your more relaxed and not trying it will happen,but an alternative is to use holistic therapies (as a holistic therapist myself i can tell you they really work one of my clients had been trying for years to get pregnant and has diabetes i gave 6 reflexology treatments and 2 weeks later she was pregnant and gave birth to a very healthy baby girl 2 weeks ago), reflexology is the best thing to use as it works on the specific regions where you have problems for you and your husband it would work on the reproductive reflex, relfexology is working on the zones through the feet its very relaxing and it does work i know it sounds completly barmy but trust me it works, but if you hate your feet being touched how about accupuncture? Western medicines have so many side effects that it can be harmful alternatives are helping the body help its self

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A female reader, sexi South Africa +, writes (8 November 2007):

sexi agony auntHi

Just out of curiosity at what age did you get married? I think that the possible reason that you are unable to conceive is because you are under stress a this time. You are constantly worrying about concieving which is preventing you from doing so. You should try going fpr some therapy which would help you.Have you tried going to a gynaecologist? Ask them what they would recommend. Hope this has helped.

Regards,mail me if you wanna talk

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