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writes:Do you think your best friend would risk a friendship if he really liked the girl? or is "I don't wanna risk the friendship thing" a lie?This particular guy fancied me A LOT in the past, so it's not like he's never felt nothing for me. He'll be really nice then goes distant, and I feel like I might lose him as a friend.
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reader, shnookims  +, writes (6 January 2009):
 I don't believe the "I don't wanna risk the friendship thing" is a complete lie. Lots of people are really good friends and then they end up having feelings for each other. Start dating and then breaking up and the friendship will never be the same.
But I also believe that if the feelings are so strong that it might be worth it to take the risk.
Your friend seems to value your friendship a lot but if he keeps going distant because he's scared of his feelings, the friendshipis going to go downhill anyway. I think that you should discuss how you feel with him and then come to a mutual agreement TOGETHER.
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