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writes:Hi, my boyfriend is 1 year and 6 months younger then me.I dont seem to have a problem with thay but other people might. We've bee together for 7 months now, it started as a joke but now its getting serious we even said I love you to each other. I can't go a day without talking to him and neither can he.We're very happy together but we try keeping our relation not very public. It's me who is actually trying.Maybe coz i dont like to be judged by other people espcially tht the society that we lives in gossips a lot.My own family doesnt even know that we're in a relationship, they think we are very close friends. only my 2 bestfriends know about it. Do you think we should keep things the way they are or make it public ? because its getting annoying after 7 months not to be normal toghether between people...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2010): hii...i remember this kind of issue all too well. about two years ago, i started dating this boy that was a little over three years younger than me. we kept things under wraps in the beginning, telling only a few of our closest friends. it was pretty much the same way that your situation is--i was the one really pushing to keep things private. but after a while, i got sick of it. it was exhausting to have to hide my happiness, and i realized that there was absolutely no reason whatsoever for me to have to do that. no one else's opinion meant as much as mine and his.the bottom line: it doesn't matter what other people think about you. being happily in love is a wonderful blessing from God...regardless of any age difference that may be involved. soo, let it show, and don't let anybody get you down. ")good luck, and God bless,
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2010): I agree with (aunt honesty).
and its your right to love whoever you want, and don't care about what other says, people will always say
so enjoy you life and be happy
good luck
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (2 October 2010):
 Truthfully i think you should go public, your best friends not and there ok with it so thats good, am sure your family will be ok with it, they accept him as one of your good friends at the minute so am sure they will be happy for you two to be together, as for some people that gossip, dont listen to them, every town has a bunch of these people and they dont have interesting lifes thats why the talk about others, so just hold your head up high and be public and show your boyfriend that your not ashamed, the opinions that matter and your friends and family everyone can say what they like so what, if your happy then let people judge you.
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