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writes:quick question here, do you think that you can fall in love with someone after just spending half a day with them?because i've been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 months now and we met at college, had coffee, talked for hours on end until we had to catch our buses home. we shared our first kiss that very same day and decided to start officially going out the day after.i'm wondering what people think about fast forming relationships.i wouldn't say that my boyfriend's "the one" because i think believing that there is only one person out there for someone is ridiculous. but i do care about him more than i have ever cared about anyone in my short life so far. and that feeling hasn't waned in the 6 months we've been together. there's no worship, no idolization, least not from my part, just a lot of love.but i digress. please tell me what you think, i don't mind what you say, i'm after opinions, not congrats thanks anon xx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2012): hey, thankyou for all your opinions (i am the poster by the way)
i never really had the butterfly feeling, i mean i'm getting a bit excited over the thought that we're coming up to 6 months now but i've never got giddy over certain things he does. (i look forward to seeing him, but i don't pine over the moment that we're together again)
but anyway, thanks again for your opinions ^^
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (6 May 2012):
 But you can really, really, really like the person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2012): Ok I don't beleave u can just fall inlove with someone in a half day u can enjoy them or imagine but u really don't no them u just think u do at that time but a lot of people like 2 b fake on the first date but that's what I think my husband on the other hand well we first started dating the 2nd day he told me he loved me I was 16 and I smacked him and told him to never say that 2 me again in less were together 4 yrs or something lol that was funny but anyways he always said I new I love u the first time I set eyes on u and new u were the one he still reminds me of that slap I was shocked I even did that lol so everyones diff maybe u did no
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reader, person12345  +, writes (6 May 2012):
 Definitely not after only a few hours. You can develop feelings of infatuation/those honeymoon phase hormones, but it's not the same as love. It can feel very very powerful, in fact I'd say it feels a lot more "urgent" than real love. Like your heart flutters at the thought of seeing him again, everything from the way he smiles to the weird way he props his feet up or whatever makes you feel like mush, etc... but it's a different sensation than love. After 6 months definitely, but half day, no.
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