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*utieaag
writes:So I think my ex boyfriend is gay, and just hasnt came out the closet yet. I also think thats why he comes coming back to me. Not because I look like a man. lol But because I do the things he wants me to do. So here are the things he has done or asked me to do. 1) his best guy friend is gay but didnt want to tell my ex, his best friend was telling me about hims being gay and that my ex wasnt his type anyway. when I told my ex I was like "dont worry your not his type anyway" and then my ex was like why? what is his type?. 2) for my birthday he asked me if I can by a strap on and do him with it, I didnt. But one night when I was drunk he grabbed my toys and asked if I would use it on him, I did. That was the only time but he asks for it all the time, I just tell him im not drunk to do that again. 3) He asked if I could stick my finger in his anus, I did and he ejaculated almost instantly. 4) This one is gross I think and I dont know how to put it approprately, but one night when we were hooking up, he ejaculated on me then lick it off me. 5) when he and his best friend (the gay one) where at a party they both made out with each other. my ex knowing his best friend is gay. so is he just a freak in the sheets or is he hiding something?
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reader, kutieaag +, writes (1 August 2011):
kutieaag is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes, Im pretty into this stuff with him too so i guess i cant complain. and yes he is my ex but we still mess around. (dumb I know) but the sex is just mind blowing. So him being Bi curious dosent bother me, I just wanted to know because I didnt want to be the girl that turned him gay. lol thank for all your input tho.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2011): I'm gay, and I wouldn't let a woman near me sexually. What's more, ejaculation would certainly not be happening.
If I wanted to have sex, I'd go and find a bloke to have it with.
A lot of straight men like anal stimulation and strap-ons etc. The only thing about your post that makes him sound even remotely 'heteroflexible' or possibly bisexual is the bit about making out with his friend.
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (29 July 2011):
 If he's your EX... why do you care?!?!
If he's bi/gay and wants to come out to you at some point he will. Other than that, forget about it and go find another boyfriend.
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reader, AlexSparky +, writes (29 July 2011):
 ok maybe i'm just a perv but that all sounds like down and dirty fun to me :P
lol but not everyone is so sexually open. yes your ex is at least bi-curious if not bisexual or full out gay. i wouldn't go back to him especially if you're not comfortable with all that kinky stuff cuz it'll just get weirder and grosser for you!
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (29 July 2011):
He's your ex, let it go... you need to back away and let him be an ex. Time will tell if he's gay.
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reader, johnsmith123  +, writes (28 July 2011):
:S some of that stuff is pretty icky, you can't deffinately say he's gay. He could be Bi-Sexual or even just Bi-curiouse. That making out with his friend though... girls do it and they dont have to even be bi curiouse, but when guys do it its different.
He's your ex you say? so i guess theres no way you could talk to him about it even though that would be a very awkward conversation :S
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reader, Roshii +, writes (28 July 2011):
 Hmm he could be gay, or bi, or just open minded.
Here's the facts, as much as we may hate it the male equivalent of the g spot is found in the anus, The anus is made up of lots of nerve endings which means any pressure on it can be translated by the brain as pleasure.
as for making out with another guy, Girls do that all the time (ALL THE TIME, DO NOT RUIN THIS FOR ME, haha) Doe's that mean there lesbians? or just comfortable with the sexuality.
The strap on thing could be seen as S&M, maybe he's more submissive than you thought and wanted you to dominate him in that respect. I just acknowledge the fact that he asked you to do it when he could so easily have got a guy to.
So tasting his own cum, Not so weird really, Ive tasted mine. and if you've ever gone down on a guy after sex, you've tasted yours. I think with this one he may have just thought you might think it was hot.
Still if you want to know for sure i'd just ask him.
My moneys on bi.
hope that helps
Roshii
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