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writes:Hi everyone. I just met this awesome, intelligent, great guy. He is a CEO of a big organisation and he is after me. I kind of like him, but i am not ready for a relationship yet, so I asked him to be patient..... What I like about him is his heart, humour and respect. The problem is that he is not at all good looking. Do you think looks count when you love a person. I am a very pretty person, so I am scared we will not make a cute couple. Do you think I shud date him coz I like him except that he is not good looking. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2007): I think, from the tone of your letter, that the person it makes a difference to is YOU, and you are the only person that has to answer this question to yourself, HONESTELY. It doesn't sound like you are interested in him at all.
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (12 March 2007):
 "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." It's what's INSIDE that counts, not what's on the outside. Looks fade with age but a healthy personality never does. Okay, so he's no model, so what? As long as he is good to you and you have loads in common then go for it. Everyone has different ideas of who's good looking and who's not. Even you won't be every guys cup of tea (sorry but it's true). This guy might have a wonderful smile, or twinkly eyes, only when you get to know him better will you notice little things about him that appeal to you that you didn't notice right away.
You can also help him to make the best of himself. Show him how to make the best of hair, dump the beard (if he has one) etc. At the end of the day it's who we are on the inside that counts, remember that!
Eve
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2007): Look certainly don't count.My first bloke was drop dead gorgeous when we met, he turned out to be a wife beater. So never ever go on looks. The mind is much more beautiful! If he makes you laugh he is half way there. Anyway, what do you consider as good looking? Think about it? Cos there are some gorgous blokes out there and many of them aren't good looking at all.
Don't be shallow, go for it!!!! Thats an order from Aunty Shandy Pop
Take care
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2007): Sadly looks don't last forever with anyone and its whats underneath that counts in the long run!!! How he treats and respects you are very important in any relationship - not the fact that ye may or may not make a cute couple!!
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