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writes:OK. i met my best friend's other best friend a few months ago and since then I've really, really liked him. i asked my best friend 2 ask the guy i like if he likes me back and he said no but whenever we're together we flirt with each other and he's always the one th@ starts it. and then when i talk 2 mi other m8s about it they all say "he was just lying about the whole not liking u thing. it's obvious he does" and then i would say "he probably flirts with lots of girls" but when i asked my best friend if th@s what he did he replied "no he doesn't usually. i was kinda surprised wen he started flirting because Ive never seen him like this". I'm just really confused and don't no if i should ask him out or not because if i do and he says no then it mite ruin our friendship and i wouldn't want th@ 2 happen because we always have so much fun wen we r together.Please help me!
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reader, mz2jlpmghrs  +, writes (23 August 2007):
 Maybe when he said he didn't like you to your bff, he didn't mean it. He could've just been embarresed to say it in front of her. But if he flirts with you and stuff, give it a try! Just say like, you want to see a movie to night? Make it sound casual. Don't make it sound like a date right away. See how responds to that then. but like I said, Give it a try! : )
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2007): Hey, I think that when you see him, you should look at him and see if he's giving you eye contact. Eye contact is the best way to tell if someone is into you, and the best way to tell someone you're interested. Then wait a day or two, if he has been giving you eye contact, and ask him out. And look for any hints he may be giving you. Good look! x
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reader, xoWhEnYourArOuNdxo +, writes (23 August 2007):
 Well this is pretty confusing. Did you ever consider that maybe your best friend might be telling you this guy doesn't like you because they might be jealous? I know plenty of people that don't want their best friends to be in relationships because they feel like they'll be put second. If I was you, I would ask your friend if thats whats going on. If that's the case, You might want to take a back off from this guy, I mean, is he worth ruining a friendship over?
If not, I would say to go for it, if the guy turns you down, he just won't know what he's missing out on:]
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