Am i just wasting my time?

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

For this past summer I've been running into an acquaintance at this local bar. I met him through my ex. He is very shy and I always have to go up and say hi to him (although the 2nd time we spoke, he said hi to me, but never came up to me and talk). After a couple of weeks of running into him and saying hi, I figured he just didn't like me. He never tried anything. However, one day, he started making out with me at the bar and eventually we went back to his place. Making a very long story short, he never got my number. A couple weeks later, we ran into each other again, and spoke, but I was always around friends so it was never just us two. My friends did notice him looking at me though. A week later, we run into each other again, and we start making out and he asked me why I didn't call him or if he was ever going to see me again. He asked me to go to his place that night, but I refused. I gave him my number the next day, but he never called. Then this week, I ran into him again. My friends said that he would stare at me when I would talk to another guy but he never came up to me. I eventually went up to him and I felt like I was giving him the okay to talk to me. We ended sleeping with each other that night. He was extremely affectionate by cuddling with me. In the morning it was a bit awkward and I just left. I really don't know how to read this guy. Is this shy guy into me or am I wasting time?

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