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writes: Hi firstly I would like to thank all whom left an answer in relation to my previous questions the last few days.Yesterday when I cuddled her it was like cuddling a dummy. No emotion, no reaction.She said she would like to catch up over the weekend, though when I asked her tonight about an hour later replied she had at the last minute gone to see her family and was spending the weekend. Even though she starts a new job Monday.....She claims she doesnt know what she wants although on Sunday wanted to move back and work things out, but has done a 360 and I have a very strong feeling she has met someone else. Her messages have become short and breif often replies ages after I have messaged her.So I have called it off after i caught my ex in bed with another guy I told myself I would never accept behaviour like that again and am now working myself out again :(Although I would like things to be different with her, she is what i thought a top chick. Do you think I have done the right thing??
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reader, SoftlyCaress +, writes (15 January 2009):
I think you have done the right thing a relationship cant be a one way thing it has to be 2 way. I know it probably hurts but I feel she has found someone also or is on the prowl and if this is true you are better off without her and moving on with your life .
GOOD LUCK AND BEST WISHES XXX
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