Do you think he will go back to his wife?

A female age 51-59, *isa.ashford@statusplc.co.uk writes:

when i was 19 i met my soul mate, he was 10 years older and had been married before with 2 children. we had a connection but after 6 months we broke up and he went back to his wife.(his wife had a affair which why they split), over the next 14 years i went in and out of bad relationships because i never felt the connect i had with him, and i knew he felt the same. even though we only lived a few moments away we never saw each other. the only time we did we starting see each other but decided we should stop as our feelings where getting to strong. he was sent to prison and his wife had another affair and as not spoken to him for over a year. a couple of months ago i decide to contact him as a friend as i generally cared about him as a person. it was like we never split up and i now know he had been unhappy in his marriage but thought that he had lost his once chance of happiness, also they had another son after they got back together. we both agreed that at 19 i was far to young to have stayed with him then. we could not believe that after 14 years when i went to see him we still had such a strong connection and have become very good friends. we both want more but are to scared in case we don't work, everyone says he will go back to his wife ,his said he will not. what shall i do

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