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writes: does he like me?Hi theres this guy that i work with 2 days a week. he is 4 years older than me (i am 19). I really like him and i often flirt with him, i want to ask him out but i dont want spoil a friendship if he doesnt feel the same way! we have been really good friends for a while now but recently he has flirted with me and when i was texting a friend last week in work (which happened to be male) he was asking me who he is was and how i knew him does this mean he was jealous? and that he likes me? please help!
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (22 July 2006):
 So??? Come on, spill the beans ... did he come out for the drinkie??? we all want to know! (lol)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2006): Yes he definetly fancies you and he was obviously getting jealous,he's probably scared about asking you out in case you don't like him!go for it girl if you don't take the plunge you will never know.good luck. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2006): Hi im the person tht wrote the question
Thank you guys for ur replies after reading them i plucked up the courage to send a text asking him to join me for a drink at the weekend he has not yet replied but he will be in work so i will let you know how things go! im really excited!
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reader, snowbird +, writes (10 July 2006):
I agree with 'Sicol'; But be subtle..I think he fancies you- but if you do want to ask him out make it to something like a concert or to the pictures with a few other people so that it does'nt seem as if you expect anything 'romantic' out of it..maybe say you have a spare ticket if he wants it - then if he only wants to be a friend you have'nt lost face and you can carry on as normal, but try not to be dissapointed if it does'nt work out the way you wished. If something is going to develop, then let him make the first move just to make sure, or stand quite close to him - if he wants something more to happen, I'm sure he will let you know!..just create the situation - and see what happens!
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reader, Sicol +, writes (10 July 2006):
I would say he does fancy you otherwise he would not flirt with you. He may be feeling the same as you and biding his time before making a move. Even if you have got it wrong I personally would be really flattered to be asked out so what have you got to lose. In anycase a date is a date and it is not as if you are asking him to marry you. Just go for it I would say better than regreting not taking the chance.
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