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writes: there was a guy i knew from grammar school and now i am 26..i think a few years ago we may have liked each other..we hung out once to catch up but then i think he wound up in a relationship with another girl from the same school. I met someone as well.I have been single for a while now and they are still together (i think)..so it's been years that they have been together..i would say about 5..i don't know all the details and i havent' seen him in awhile..we will sometimes talk on aim or he will text me during the holidays. On fb, they have a lot of pictures together over the years but nothing recent..and i noticed he removed his "in a relationship" status from facebook which seems odd. It doesn't list anything but he still has his albums up.He told me awhile ago they were on a break and then got back together. I guess i sort of have a crush but i know he is hands off. And maybe since then something changed with them.He texted me probably 2 months ago if i wanted to meet up in the group he was in for a drink..it was a little too late since i wasn't ready and decided not to go. I texted him about a month ago if he wanted to grab drinks and he can invite whoever he wants..he said he was honestly tired from work but would make it up to me.He texted me randomly yesterday asking if i had plans for the night and said so and so's brother is in town and said i should bring a friend. I didn't have any friends to bring and i also was coming back from the beach so i felt lazyHe texted again later kind of joking around saying i have too many excuses etc..and i said i'll try to come..i was getting ready but really didn't like how i was looking after the beach..my hair was still greasy after a shower etc..i didnt feel as confident..and it was almost midnight by the time i was ready..they were still out though..i sort of decided by 1am i wasn't gonna go and fell asleepi woke up and saw a text at 2:30 from him joking around about why i didnt come meet them and he was looking forward to seeing me :(I texted him back this morning saying im sorry and i wanted and to let me know if they go out again tonight and no response at all4th of july comes and he asks if i think i can find someone to bring today? So basically he was asking me to hang out with him and his friend. I said i would try but i think everyone is away. I joked and said why do you want me to set you up? and he wrote maybe. A friend said he sounds flirty with me.I met them for drinks and he mentioned they may go to a bbq later which i thought was weird..like maybe he didnt like me and when he saw i was alone was making an excuse to leave? But we still had drinks and actually went to another place to grab food and some more drinks. He wouldn't let me pay but i still bought a round.When i got home i texted him saying i had fun with you guys and hope i was enough entertainment for u lol..he wrote you were fine but next time bring ur sexy friends ;) i wrote u suck as kind of a way to playfully say ur being a jerk and he wrote i am kidding and then wrote but seriously next time bring friends and i wrote seriously u suck lol so thats why u invited me? and he wrote of course notDo you think he could like me? or just wanted a big group to be around? is it too early to say if he likes me or not? or maybe he was testing me out and my reaction?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 July 2011):
 It is really hard to tell what he is thinking. It does sound like he wanted you there, but he seems to be only interested if you bring friends. However this could be a case that he is trying to set up his friend with a friend of yours so he has time with you alone. Or it could be a case that he is now single and he is wanting to enjoy himself and meet new single girls. It is a bit to early to tell what is on his mind. Just keep taking things as they come and see what happens is my only advice to you.
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