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writes:So i put a question on end of last week and just want an update and opinion, Here is what i wrote last weekI am 23 years old and have a 23 months old daughter with a lad i was with for nearly 4 years. Sadly my grandad died of cancer 11 weeks ago and i have been grieving for him a lot. Me and my boyfriend split up on the same day that was 11 weeks since he died. The day after would have been my grandads 76th birthday. I did a pregnancy test and came back positive. My ex wants me to keep the baby and deep down i want to too. Only thing i live in a 2 bedroom house with my mum who has M.S and i share a bedroom with my daughter already. But now my mum sed if i want to keep the baby i have to move out before im 3 months pregnant. (Im 4 weeks now) I feel really pressured to get rid of the baby but i never have agreed with it and i know i wil regret it. I am still grieving my granddad and upset about splitting with my ex and dont need getting rid of my baby on my mind as well. Im on council list but could be a while yet. Anyone got any advice on what to do and what help i could get to move out money wise and if id be able to cope xxxThis is what is new:Now my mum has come round to the idea if i wanna keep the baby it is up to me. But me and my ex stil havent spoke face to face about it yet. i asked him last week if i had my own house would things between us be different and he said i think so and i said to try and be a family with our daughter and unborn child and he sed dont know. He told me he didnt love and care about me anymore. Then went out that night and sent me a message a 4am saying just got in totally off my head and loving it. Everything was spelt correct and i wil be 1st to admit you cant text when you're that bad.then the next morning he couldnt remember sending it and apologised and said he does care cos we been through a lot together. Then he sed we can take our daughter out to seaside for her birthday just the 3 of us. that is instead of booking her a birthday party. Then he goes racing on his bike and he had been this weekend and i asked who knows we split up cos i talk to a couple on internet and he said they knew then when i spoke to one of them she didnt even know. Now he decided that he isnt happy about the baby and in an arguement told me to get rid then said sorry he didnt want to talk about it. Going to his in 2 days to talk about things face to face. Im in the middle now of getting my own house.What does ne one think. Do u think he care and do u think its over for good, please help the stress is causing panic attacks xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI wrote the question. As to do with the not working I have worked since the age of 16 and couldn't go back after having my daughter so got another job but got made redundant in January. I haven't had any luck in finding another job but not through lack of trying. And I have just told him I am going to win him back and he asked how wat am I going to do. I told him xxxx
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