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writes: Hello,I think this is a question for people who have been in long term relationships that have lasted. How do you know when they are the one, or is their such a thing as the one or just someone special you having feelings for. i believe that their is a person out their. but i think spending a certain amount of time in dead end relationships has my faith wavering about what im expecting. any advice or thoughts from people who have found their one or are in long term relationships only please. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Candycane1234 +, writes (8 June 2012):
When you imagine your marriage to them. I've only ever considered marrying one bloke seriously. I thought about myself walking down the aisle, I even know the church where I wanted it, but I'm afraid our love has turned sour.
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reader, Pretty face +, writes (1 June 2012):
I must say you will know when he/she is the One -You dont realy have to be in a long term relationship- (my point is that how long you have been together dont realy matter to know His the One,Its the little things that will show)how He/she lights up ur world when its dark you know -the comforting,cuddling cancelling his appointments,mettings with friends just to spending time with you-my darling you will feel it with your whole being not just what ur mind wants you to believe as your feelings are strong towards Him/her..so hang in there and have faith in love.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2012): You ll know. He ll be the one that u will feel safe with, would want to have his kids and see him everyday.
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reader, mooh +, writes (30 May 2012):
I would say that you know it's the One, when it feels "natural" and "right" to be with that person. You are yourself with that person and can picture the both of you on the long run and evolving in life together (wedding, children, retirement stage for example) . It's very abstract indicators, but that's what love is.
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