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writes: For all of you who are aware of my situation, I have a crush on a very quiet boy who doesn't really respond to anyone unless it is a small question. I've been in the same class with him for I think a little less than a month.I've been handling my situation the same way when it came to him, like if I see him, I say hi and smile, if he doesn't respond I go on about my business. Every once in a while I've asked him little questions. I asked him if I could borrow his pencil, and I think I asked him for the homework once and then one time when he volunteered to read in class, the next day I asked him if he was going to read and he nodded.After he read(He speaks very low but I could still hear him) I told him 'hey, nice reading," and once I told him to have a nice day. Little stuff like that you know?He used to look my way when I was with my friends sometimes but he rarely ever does anymore. Though on Friday, I kinda felt like he was warming up to me a little.The teacher came late on that day and me and him were waiting for her in the hall. I told him "hi" and he didn't respond, but he looked back at me and I just smiled at him. Then in class the teacher said that we were going to the auditorium and I asked "What for?"and he answered my question for me but I wasn't even talking to him.And then when we got to the auditorium my friend was sitting between us and I showed my friend the picture that I drew(In hopes that my crush would notice because I know that he likes to draw too) and he was looking at my drawing from the corner of his eye.I still had his pencil during the time(I had asked to use it) and I gave it back to him when we returned to class and thank him for letting me use it. He didn't say anything though :PDo you guys think he's coming around a little and am I going about approaching him the right way?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2012): Seems to me you are approaching it very well! You say "Hi" to him, you smile at him, you talk to him without trying to force conversation or put him under pressure. Guys can be really shy, even if they like someone, perhaps more-so if they think you like them. I think you're doing a great job. Keep it friendly, keep it simple and if he likes you, he'll come around.
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reader, Ayan Ganguly  +, writes (7 February 2012):
 Take it easy and don't rush into conclusions....first of all be sure of what you think about him (for him) rather than whats going on his mind...you would be hurting yourself if you react to his behaviour...create a friendship with him and try to retain normalcy...give time and see where the friendship leads to ....AND ENJOY THE BEAUTIFUL JOURNEY...all the best
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