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writes:A couple years ago, there was this guy I had a huge crush on. He asked me out and we had a happy relationship, but then I had to move to a different school. We promised to keep in touch, but we just didn't, and after a while, we moved on with our lives.I recently saw him again and realized I still like him. We have a lot in common, and while we were separated, we were interested in the same things without even knowing it.So, pretty much, this is my question: Were we meant to be or was our first relationship just a childhood crush?P.S. I'm not sure if he has a girlfriend now; I didn't have time to ask.
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reader, idoneitagain  +, writes (10 June 2011):
You do not need to wonder how things were meant to be or not. All things that are meant to be will happen, if they are meant to be, you don't need to think about it. What is important to realise is that you play an active role in the things that happen. We are able to make things happen in our lives, because we can make choices and put our energy and attention into things. Doing that makes things happen. Things don't always work out like we want, because we don't control the rest of the universe, but we do have the power of choice. What matters is how you feel and what you want right now in this moment. You know you liked him in the past and it didn't work out because you moved, but what has happened in the past is gone now. All you need to know is what you want to do right now. Generally, if you like someone, its a good idea to let them know somehow. Express your truth, and make your truth happen as much as you can. If you don't chances are simply nothing will happen especially if you are at different schools and don't see one another. This advice applies to all areas of your life :)
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