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*ndrew loves hali
writes:okay I'm in a complicated situation. my gf and i recently got back together after about a month. we broke up mainly cause she was like in love with my cuousin and she always talked to him and about him. he wasnt at our school for the 2 semester cause he moved. hes coming back next school year and he's a big flirt even tho he knows all the girls he flirts with have bf's. so me and my gf only have the summer together before we prbly break up .and the start of school is in september. so should we make summer the best we can and always have that memory or should i end it now so i dont have to deal with the heartbreak and remember what we did when were not together? she says she'll do what ever i want. im confused. and ideas. what would you do in my situation?
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reader, andrew loves hali +, writes (24 May 2009):
andrew loves hali is verified as being by the original poster of the question i cant break up with her. she has my heart. i just spent the whole day with her. nothin could beat this feeling. i will stay with her. and tell my cousin to leave her the heck alone.
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reader, darkledemon  +, writes (24 May 2009):
 anyway, i do understand, im a teenager too and have had a cousin who is sorta like the sound of yours (there dads in the RAF and they move alot etc.)
but please dont stay with her, you need to find someone who loves you equally back. if you break up now, from now to september will gve you time to get over her before he is back and you will not be as hurt seeing them together than if you wait to break up right before!!!!
x hope you come to a decision
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reader, andrew loves hali +, writes (23 May 2009):
andrew loves hali is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyou dont understand. she has cheated on me many times with my cousin well actually he always kisses her when im standing right there of course were guna break up when he comes back. he'll just do what he always does to me and other guys out there. hes a dumbass. and im still with her cause i love her. i know how could i love her after she cheated on me but i do. and prbly always will.
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reader, darkledemon +, writes (23 May 2009):
you may have the most AMAZING summer with her, and get more attached, and im sorry to say darling but staying with her will make it harder in the end and will break your heart more when she is sraight all over your cousin. so my advice would be break up with her now, give you more time to get over her before your cousin gets back.
xx
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reader, love-struckxo  +, writes (23 May 2009):
 Are you kidding me? You guys will break up, just because your COUSIN is coming back? and she will go with him again?
Cut her off right now! Obviously, she is not that serious about you, and is using you until your cousin comes back. Do NOT take that. Why are you even still with her?
BREAK UP WITH HER NOW! You just dropped your game. You should never let a girl do that to you, or say:
'hey, lets just date until your cousin comes back,
then we will break up'
Do you get where i'm coming from now?
I feel bad for you actually.. break up with her, and move on. There are plently of other girls out there, that will REALLY like you.
xx
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