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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Heya friends..I've been in a relationship with this person for over 1 year. Over the past few months he's behaving quite rude with me. He texts me only when he wants nudes from me. If at all I refuse to do so, he pleads and begs and will finally get furious and then won't speak to me. Earlier he was serious about having a future with me but now, he seems to have changed. I truly love him a lot and I do want a future with him. I don't want to lose him. Kindly guide me how should I go about it. Thanks a lot
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (20 May 2016):
Easy fix...He wants nude pictures...no problem.
You want pictures of the engagement ring he is buying you. The venue for the wedding, and your honeymoon destination.
Let's see how fast he runs :)
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reader, Ivyblue  +, writes (20 May 2016):
 He texts me only when he wants nudes from me. If at all I refuse to do so, he pleads and begs and will finally get furious and then won't speak to me.
Good on you for not giving in, but how long will it be before he wears you down to the point that you are doing things that you don't feel comfortable. just to keep him happy. That's abusive both sexually and emotionally. I do hope what you have sent cant ID you.
Find yourself a decent MAN and leave this child and his tantrums for someone else.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (19 May 2016):
 *sarcasm font* Gosh, he sounds like a really wonderful boyfriend. *end sarcasm font*
In order to understand him, we need to know more about him and your relationship. How old is he? How did you meet? Tell us about how he treats people when you're out in public together, such as waiters, people who are serving you as well as his friends. Tell us what your friends think about him, and your family. Does he make a good impression at family gatherings?
Tell us about the last three dates you went on together. Where did he take you, what did you do together?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (19 May 2016):
 You really need a wake up call OP....
I seriously hope you haven't sent him a SINGLE nude photo. If you have, I suggest next time you hang out... you delete ALL of them. And then... DUMP the fool.
He isn't seeing you as a GF, but a piece of meat who should be constantly available for HIS needs...
Girl, you know this isn't a relationship.
You don't want to lose him? WHY NOT? He doesn't love you, doesn't treat you with respect, doesn't even give a crap about what you are OK with and what you are not.
If you LOVE him so much..... why did you write this post?
And if you dumped him, what exactly do you think you are going to "lose" out on? Is being single so scary that you rather be some douchy guy's doormat?
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