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Do these weird gazes mean anything?

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Question - (9 January 2014) 5 Answers - (Newest, 11 January 2014)
A male Portugal age 30-35, *rigin writes:

Lately this girl I know has been giving me weird gazes like when we're talking she looks at me right in the eyes like she's looking right into my soul and I feel a chemistry between us I don't know if she feels it too, she always switches between my left eye to my right one and then to my lips and back to the eyes and she only stops when the conversation ends or when I look away sometimes she looks away too, even after we talk we kinda look at each other before breaking eye contact. I admit it I have feelings for her and I love when she does this I have no problem holding eye contact I get lost in her eyes. I'm just curious if this means something so please help :D

Thanks!

Ps: Her pupils are dilated when she talks to me even if the light is right in front of her but I need to test this more. She also smiles a bit.

Ps2: One day I kinda leaned in and looked at her mouth she got a little shy and smiled I think she thought I was going to kiss her but I just started teasing her saying she had a mustache. I know I shouldn't do that :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2014):

Either man up and be brave enough to talk to her, or some guy who is braver than you will come along and take her attention away. She isn't going to sit around starring at you all day, my friend.

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A male reader, Origin Portugal +, writes (11 January 2014):

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You said that she already knows that i like her "its all instinctive" i cant tell her how i feel so i guess i'm gonna keep showing her that i like her right? if i ask her on a date and she accepts thats basically a yes right?

Thanks alot :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2014):

You have to talk to her to find out what she's thinking!

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A male reader, Origin Portugal +, writes (10 January 2014):

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Thanks alot for the help WiseOwlE you're right i look deeply into her eyes too i cant avoid it haha its funny because usually i dont make eye contact with most people i know but with her its different i really get lost in her eyes sometimes i stop listening to what she is saying i forget about everything i just focus on her eyes is this chemistry? does she feel it too? i wish i knew :D

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2014):

It's no doubt you look deeply into her eyes as well!

A girl's gaze and smile tells a lot about what she's thinking. Keeping her attention for an extended period is how they let you know you have a chance. Otherwise;they roll their eyes and it's off. You're done.

People who look you in the eyes, are usually outgoing and direct.

If you ever scorn a girl, that smile and deep gaze means she's plotting her revenge. Learn the difference, young man.

When your eyes lock and she gazes deeply, she is listening intently to your comments; and noticing through your gaze that you like her. Her senses pick up the tone in your voice and your body language. It's all instinctive.

It's the unspoken signals that people exchange when we are attracted to each other. Sent involuntarily. The eyes are often the mirror to the soul, and often give away our secrets.

In a nutshell, she is waiting for you to say something to let her know that you like her. Not that you love her.

Don't get carried away! Time to ask her for a date. She's easy to talk to.

It's okay to let her know that you find her sweet and interesting. It's time to man up.

Then she can let you know if she is interested in the same way or not. She has said so partially with her eyes. Now she is giving you a chance to say something out loud.

You better be nice to her!

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