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writes:Is this normal ? My wife has a birthday in December and enjoys an annual thing, which is a good spanking!! This year on the night of her b'day I was in the shower and came out to her on all fours on the bed with a paddle next to her and she said give it to me good!! She is 45. I don't mind this at all but I kind of feel this is nasty wanting that many spanks. Does anyone else share in this practice? Reply to this Question
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (2 January 2016):
 Doesn't this reflect back to those days when we were kids and, on one's birthday, they got one spank for every year?
Anyways..... she's playful.... so don't disappoint her.....
Good luck...
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reader, Been there Now over it +, writes (2 January 2016):
I just Googled 'sex spank' and 'sex spanking" and, between the two, got over 15 million links. So, your wife is far from being alone.I had a girlfriend ask several times to be spanked and I obliged her. However, I was not all that into it and felt awkward doing it, and I'm sure she sensed that or she probably would have asked for it more often.One of the Google links notes that "the turn-on is not so much in the sensation of pain as it is in the feeling of helpless submission and vulnerability of being bent over her partner's lap, the attention being paid to her behind (a primary erotic zone), the feeling of a man's hand warming her buttocks, and the anticipation of sexual pleasures to come." Your wife would probably like it more often than just on her birthday and may be wondering why you don't get the hint. If you get comfortable with it, you might find it can be fun for you, too. There are ways of spanking and spanking toys that do not cause undesirable pain. It could evolve into a more fun and theatrical experience if you do a bit of role-playing with toys, sexy lingerie and a dominant/submissive dialogue. There are a lot of porn movies out that feature spanking. You might want to get a few of those to open your eyes as to the options.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (1 January 2016):
 I think many does. Some have an partner who enjoy giving (or taking) some have a partner who doesn't understand it (like you) but complies.
For some people pain it PRETTY close to pleasure, sometimes it IS pleasure.
Does she do things for you that SHE isn't keen on? maybe blowjobs?
When it comes to kinks (and yes, spanking is a kink) there is one for every person out there, no matter how "vanilla" they might normally be. And of MANY of the kinks out there... getting a spanking ONCE a year is on the VERY mild side, I should say.
What exactly is nasty about it?
I would also like to point out that you don't HAVE to comply with her wishes if you find it disgusting, but remember that it goes both ways.
And it can be she is trying to spice up your sex life.
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