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writes:Hi everyone. I have a question. This one is a bit personal, and embarrassing to ask. Do women fantasise about having sex with their boyfriends/husbands bend-over-boyfriend style?I ask this question not because I am interested in that kind of sex, but because I want to know what female fantasies are just out of curiosity.I hope the question is clear. To make it clearer, do women want to dominate their boyfriends/husbands by inserting dildos inside their bottoms?I am concerned that if a woman ever asked me for a favour like this, I might have to end the relationship. But feel free to give open and honest answers.I understand that women have felt exploited by men in the past, so I'd like to know what goes through theirminds when it's the other way round.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2011): As far as I know, no woman I've ever met gets off on penetrating her boyfriend with a dildo to revenge historical sexism. Though I'm sure there are exceptions...To be honest, I think it's rather rare for females to have domination fantasies over men. I think submission or rape fantasies are far more common with women. I think the majority of us just want to feel safe and secure during sex, not dominate. I guess that's why we're called the "passive sex." We don't tend to be as aggressive as men. There are hormonal differences between us which can account for alot of our behavior and impulses.This is a very general statement, but I think most women value agressiveness highly in a male during sex. It makes us feel desired. I doubt men value aggressivenes as much in a women....but I'm not a man so I don't really know.Anyway, when we do feel aggressive, domintation fantasies for females might have a couple themes:.sexually frustrating him/a lot of foreplay.riding him.BJs I'm not sure we get anything physically stimulating out of sodomizing someone with a vibrator, but then again I'm not a dominatrix nor have I met any.
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