I am a bit shy when it comes to the opposite sex ...any advice on how to cope?
Q. Hey guys...first time writer.....well here goes.... My name's Liam, live in Australia, in Year 12 (Senior Year), im a decent looking guy, i have a great personality, i try to do the right thing everytime, always treat girls nice, but i am yet to h...
A. 21 May 2007: Do you fear that you would not get it first time right when you are to kiss your girl or even have sex with her? I guess it stems from your perfectionistic expectations from yourself. What if you mess up the first time you kiss her? You would ... (read in full...)
I have a "make other people happy complex". I feel guilt if I don't please people. Any advice as to whether this could be dealt with?
Q. I have a "make other people happy complex" and i feel guilty if i am not able to make others happy at the place i go. I fear criticizm from my parents if i am not able to please the people i associate with wherever i go. That seems to be the only ...
A. 21 May 2007: Original Poster..
Thanks for your replies. I have understood an underlying deep fear of disobeying my father, who had been quite dominating for me and i always had to comply to what he said to me. It was as if, he dictated what should make me ... (read in full...)
I percieve the act of sex as something 'dirty' rather than something pleasurable. How do I deal with this?
Q. hiya. I find it easy to talk about sex but i find it very difficult to be intimate with someone. The thought of being intimate in a sexual way with someone does not appeal to me and for some reason i see it as dirty rather than something pleasu...
A. 21 May 2007: Do you like the way you look. Have you ever been complimented by a member from opposite sex about how beautiful you are or what's so good about your appearance? Though i am a guy myself, i have similar problems getting close to having sex as i want ... (read in full...)
What happens if you can't live up to other's expectations?
Q. What happens if you do not or cannot live up to the expectations of other people in life who are important for you?...
A. 28 April 2007: Thanks... (read in full...)
How do you deal with people who coerce others, to benefit their own interests?
Q. When you are in a relationship with someone, say with a friend, brother, sister, parent, uncle etc. does it imply that your destiny is tied to that of other people? Is it your duty to have these people control a part of your destiny so that it gets ...
A. 28 April 2007: Thanks for the replies... (read in full...)
Is it possible for a person to carry other people with him to reach same emotional/spiritual level in life?
Q. Is it possible for a guy to take his partner(a girl) to the same heights that he may reach in his life? or viceversa? Broadly speaking, is it possible for a person to carry other people with him to reach same emotional/spiritual level in life?...
A. 19 April 2007: Thanks to all !... (read in full...)
Do most females generally not allow the guy to have sex with her, until he's more emotionally involved?
Q. Is it true that a woman would generally now allow the guy to have sex with he until she is able to get the guy go deeper? I am not comfortable going so deep emotionally for having sex, so how can i make over for it? ...
A. 19 April 2007: Thanks for your response everyone!... (read in full...)
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