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*lueflower
writes:i love to create a romantic atmosphere (scented candles ,rose petals ,silk sheets ,nice music ,food and wine )making love slowly ,looking into the guy eyes ,hearing his breath and pulling him closer to me.... am i too idealistic Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 January 2012):
 I vote for that once in a while but NOT EVERY TIME...
sometimes down and dirty we have 20 minutes let's rock and roll works better...
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (20 January 2012):
 In moderation. I mean, most men have a tender, romantic side and will surely appreciate and enjoy the romantic atmosphere , candles an all, - on occasions.
But if every time it is the same, and every time you need such an elaborate set up , it gets stale and boring pretty soon. For you too , I would guess.
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reader, PeanutButter +, writes (20 January 2012):
 It very much depends on the man, his mood, his desires and preferences. Some love it, others hate it, but as long as you're on the same page, it can be phenomenal!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2012): No you aren't too idealistic at all. I like soft sensual sex too - but all my GF ever wants to do is fuck hard and fast like rutting animals.
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave  +, writes (19 January 2012):
Men who know what love is and understand it, do generally like it.
But as with all forms of sex some like, some dont.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2012): I'd say it depends on the guy, most guys I've been with seem to have a romantic side. My current boyfriend on our last anniversary lit candles in my room sprinkled rose petals on the bed and put a some new lingerie from Ann summers on the bed. It's only happened once up to yet thought. I think sometimes when the idea strikes him he just feels like doing something special.
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reader, BellyDancerAme +, writes (19 January 2012):
 I'd say it depends on the guy, most guys I've been with seem to have a romantic side. My current boyfriend on our last anniversary lit candles in my room sprinkled rose petals on the bed and put a some new lingerie from Ann summers on the bed. It's only happened once up to yet thought. I think sometimes when the idea strikes him he just feels like doing something special.
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