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writes:My ex broke up with me because he wanted his freedom and didnt want to be tied down in a relationship, even though we were perfect together. Unfortunately, I dont see us getting back together or even being friends but I am wondering when he finally grows up and matures in like 20 years or so, will he look back at his decision with me and regret the best thing that could have happened to him?
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reader, urbanking99  +, writes (8 February 2009):
Yes. Absolutely - decisions we did make and those we didn't.I only ever regret 2 things1st - Mine not asking the first woman in the world I fell in love with to marry me. Oh what a fool I am!and 2nd - see the 1st one.
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reader, sonny0732 +, writes (7 February 2009):
 i am pretty sure all men have regrets. i actualy did that same thing to a woman who was probably the best gf ever. and i regret the hell out of it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009): Well, if he looks back on this twenty years from now and regrets this whole thing, I'd have to say that is a very slow lesson learned. Right now, if you do feel hurt, keep feeling it until it goes away. Because if you don't, you will forever be comparing this young man to all of your next boyfriends. After the angry/depressed/sad/"f*ck him and f*ck you" stage, you should start focusing on yourself. No one (outside of your family) can truly love you if you do not love yourself. The break-up is his problem, not yours. You can do what you want now and not feel guilty about it at all. Just make sure you don't stay in touch with him because the healing process will be that much harder. Trust me, I just went through the healing process. (Only I broke up with him because he abused me and then cheated on me.) But seriously, focus on yourself. You deserve it! =]
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reader, timeforchange +, writes (6 February 2009):
he is just young and as a man he wants to explore his options which is not such a big thing for women. he will look back and want you but when he wants to come back you will have already found someone who appreciates you and wont want him back. just keep your head up and move on. it will be a little hard in the beginning but it will all work out.
good luck
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (6 February 2009):
 ofcourse guys regret...
one day he'll wake up and say
"what da f++k did i do...
im such an ass"
he'll realize that he gave
up on something really good..
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