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*icole1231
writes:I would like to know, can a 65 yrs old woman can still be active in sex? Do you think a married couple at this age make love still?To men who's wife are from ages 60-65, is sex enjoyable with her or you prefer to look for younger women to satisfy your physical needs? Would older men look for an affair for sexual purposes only or is it possible for older man to love another woman because their wife cannot completely fulfill their needs?Please share with me your opinions and I may ask older men to share their experiences as well.Thank you.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (11 February 2011):
 Your original question was deceiving and, now that your true concern has been revealed, my opinion is that you are also being deceived.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 February 2011):
 FWIW my grandparents were in their 80s and still sexually active with each other.
I don't think that their age has anything to do with communication problems.
If he needs viagra to perform it's not about the wife's desire or attractiveness.
If you are having an emotional affair and the wife knows about it and is ok with it then I personally don't see an issue with it.
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reader, FloridaCatGirl +, writes (10 February 2011):
 Why on earth would you waste your time with a married man? He has already told you that he loves his wife. This means he has no intention of ever leaving her. He is not in love with you. He just wants to use you for sex.
Have you ever considered how selfish you are to get involved with another woman’s husband? I have no doubt the relationship this man has with you is very hurtful to his wife. Imagine how you would feel if you were in her shoes?
You need to cut ties with this man and find someone who is single. If you continue this affair, you will only get hurt in the end. Please find the strength to move on. Good luck!
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reader, nicole1231 +, writes (10 February 2011):
nicole1231 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSomeone is in love with me he is 27 yrs older than me. He is the nicest person I have known in my entire life. I am separated and he fills my needs emotionally, nothing physical.He said he loves his wife, but also loves me, and so it confuses me what he really wants from me. I assumed that perhaps his wife is older and they couldn't share anymore reasons he looks elsewhere since they are both old. And I have noticed they don't have a good emotional connection. One thing that bothers me, the wife knows about the emotional affair and yet she seemed to be just nonchalant. Do you think older couples have communication problems and just stay in the relationship because they are old enough to separate. By the way, this older man is an Arab-american. He lives more in the US than in UAE. But they travel a lot here and there.He said his wife still wants to be physical with him, but he doesn't have it, I mean the feelings. He said he needs to take his viagra to work things out for them. We are emotionally attached to each other but nothing physical and we are so much attached with each other for almost a year now and getting more intense.What do you think does he really feels for me? Lust or love?
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (10 February 2011):
I'm a 60-something year old man who still very much enjoys sex, and very lovingly so, with women about my age and younger. Women in their 50s and 60s can be very sensual and open minded when they have become widowed or divorced, partly because there is no more fear of pregnancy, and in many cases they are ready and willing to try things never before experienced, such as oral sex and more. If I were still married to my wife of 20 years, it would be only with her. But now divorced, I seek and find mates otherwise, and there are many available mature women.
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reader, FloridaCatGirl +, writes (10 February 2011):
If you don't mind me asking, why are you so interested in this? Are you thinking about having an affair with an older married man?
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