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writes:Getting to know this guy, really like him. He's wonderful and we're having lots of fun together. We're both at uni. But, I have some doubts. He's been really open about telling me he takes drugs when he's out in the evenings, it's the sort of scene he's in. Thought I could accept it, but finding it a bit too much. Just wondered if anyone else had any similar experiences, should I be so worried? Think I'm worried that I'll get swept up in it. Don't want to be too quick to judge and throw away something that could be so good. Just a bit confused as to how to play it. I mean drugs are always something I've been very anti, but is there a difference between recreational drugs and the really hard stuff. Just because he takes drugs doesn't mean he's a bad person, it's a different scene.
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reader, ballerina22  +, writes (22 May 2011):
 Simple answer: YES!
This is going to be very blunt but stick to your morals! Do not lower your standards, he's not worth it trust me. It's not just a different scene, it's illegal. People that do drugs are not usually very productive people. Thier lives don't expand beyond drugs and thier own town. Just think, would you want to marry or have children with a man who does drugs? This relationship will go no where, and if it does you'll end up barefoot and broke.
I'm not saying he will not turn his life around one day but please don't wait for it. It could take years, or more likely, never.
Please, please, please, DO NOT associate your self with anyone who does drugs, you are too good for that.
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